第一年在私人機構過情人節,驚訝原來真的會有人會收到花束。是大束大束的那種,數目多於一。
當然沒有我的份兒。
沒有酸葡萄的情緒,但開始明白送花的背後意義,以及女人期望收花的心態。
或多或少,是為了滿足女人的虛榮心。
收到花的,表示有人追求。這道理明白不過。再深一層的想,不只是讓被追求者知道,也讓周遭看到花束的人知道。有時候,後者更為重要。
偶然讀到某人寫著:情人節如果有意義的話,無非是一年一度「公然示愛」的日子。
原來如此。
“Cinema is blood, tears, violence, hate, death, and love. And Sirk has made films with blood, with tears, with violence, hate... Sirk has said: you can't make films about things, you can only make films with things, with people, with light, with flowers, with mirrors, with blood, in fact with all the fantastic things which make life worth living.” (Fassbinder)
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