2007-11-03

友人說得對


原來我一直以為是他欠了我的


對那事,我一直是落落大方的,身邊的人都說我傻,我卻大方的像是沒有點半怨恨或憤怒



我的滿不在乎、懶瀟灑,全是因為,我覺得他永遠也還不到


只要我不恨他,他就是別人心中的壞蛋




只要我不恨他,他永遠也是欠了我的






是故,當我發現某些似曾相識的事,就頓然不知所措






那實在不好,對自己對人家也不公平





不過,隔了那麼久,已不懂得如何去忘記、或是放下




原來,當某人的面目已模糊時,連想忘也不能忘卻




太固執了

2 則留言:

les 說...

不固執,太難了。

努力。

匿名 說...

沒有恨,欠與不欠仍存在嗎?

Every time I try to suggest something, my dear, you would say "I know, I know" and so I couldn't continue. But do you really know, my friend? Let's be still and see what I want to say here.

It isn't about fair or unfair, forgive or forget, or even "can" or "cannot". It is about the our CHOICE, a decision.

Is all about CHOICE my dear. And you should know what you should choose. If not, you know where the answer is.

(by the way, I always read your blog. just didn't leave comment as I felt that you might not feel good about my view. But dear, I care you much.)